I'm Ain't Dead Yet, Motherfuckers!!!!!

 Hey y'all. I'm just letting you guys know that its been awhile but I'm still around and hanging in there. I haven't done another article yet but I'll be back with some new rants and raves. Stay tuned for more. 

Oh, just in case I forget. Happy Halloween bloggers and bloggettes. 

The THOT Process !!!!

Our beautiful black women, what the fuck are we doing to ourselves?! Before you start reading this blog, keep in mind that I am a black woman. I see this shit more and more everyday. We constantly degrade ourselves, then go around and blame white folks. I'm not saying all of us act like this, so don't get it twisted. We sit up here and have multiple babies by different guys and then wonder why our children grow up so confused and fucked up. We post pictures of ourselves naked online for the whole world to see then get mad when someone takes that picture and spreads it around, now everyone can see your ass and tits. There are videos of some of us sucking or fucking a guy. Newsflash, ladies, nobody cares who you had in your bed last night or yesterday morning. We don't care about who's penis was in your mouth, ass or pussy. Nobody wants to see videos of you twerking. Now don't get me wrong, there's nothing wrong with being sexy and strutting your stuff. If you wanna take pictures of yourself naked or half naked, keep it on your mobile device under lock and key. Who you've been fucking, keep it to yourself. If you wanna shake your ass, by all means, do you boo boo, but twerk and bounce in private. We sit up here and talk about how men don't respect us. How can you complain about men not respecting you, when you don't respect your damn self? Let's be for real, when you act like a ho you will be treated like one. Let's face it, there's a difference between sexy and trashy, and some of us get the two mixed up. The two pictures I posted are prime examples. The first one is BEYOND disgusting, the second is okay. Now if it was just the nice, curvy woman in the metallic one piece showing off her body, that'd be just fine but she has who I assume is her daughter, perhaps a niece standing next to her wearing a two piece. Lady in the second photo, what the fuck are you doing?! That little girl is a THOT in training. This is the reason why so many teenage girls are having babies. Black women, we can do better!!!! If this is what young black girls have to look up to in this younger generation, then we are fucked. Black girls are looking up to the wrong role models. Too many of them are looking up to Cardi B, Blac Chyna, Kim Kardashian, Nicki Minaj, Amber Rose, and that nasty ass little girl Danielle Bregoli (even though she ain't black). Btw, that little girl can't rap, or spell, and her voice is SUPER annoying. I have some pieces of advice for you young black ladies that growing up in this younger generation. Listen to your mothers and grandmothers, stay in school, keep your legs closed or practice safe sex, be beautiful on the inside as well as the outside, I know its tough but stay optimistic, look at yourself in the mirror every day and give your reflection as kiss, thugs don't make good boyfriends, fighting over social media drama ain't cute, be better than that. Be the next Michelle Obama, Oprah Winfrey, Whoopi Goldberg, Maya Angelo, Angela Davis, Janelle Monae, or Alicia Keys. If you want men to respect you, it all begins with you respecting yourself. Nothing good comes with being a THOT. First of all, if you want children, get married and have a husband and raise a family together. Young girls, stop having all these babies and you won't or can't raise them right. I'm not saying you have to be a perfect parent because perfection is a myth. You have to get out here and teach your daughters, nieces, and grand daughters things that can better them for their future. Teenage girls, stop growing up so fast. You have your whole life ahead of you to experience certain things. You're not a grown woman, stop doing grown woman shit! You need to develop in mind, body and spirit. I myself am 32 and look up to my mother and my twin sister Lisa because they are strongest women I know personally. Being a THOT means guys are gonna use you for your pussy. Now, I have nothing against giving a guy some pussy, but that guy needs to be your significant other and you two need to be committed to each other. Me, I gave it up, you're damn right I did but he is my one and only and I love him dearly and he loves me. Practice celibacy, make him understand that he has to earn that gift. Don't be so quick to give that thing up because he's cute, has good hair, has a nice car or has a big dick and a lot of money. Some guys will say and do anything to get a piece of that. That is your's and you have to protect it. Being a THOT, you'll gain a nasty reputation not just with guys but with other females. Any self respecting female will not trust her man around a THOT or better yet, any self respecting woman won't become a THOT. Bad Bitch, to me that means the same thing as THOT but some you will try to class it up! Bitch, please!


Follow these simple rules:


Be the girl that he wants to marry some day and take home to his mother, not the ho down the block!!!
Be the girl that he wants to spend his whole life with, not just one night!!!!!
Know the difference between the guy that genuinely likes you, and the one who's just trying to get in your panties!!!!!
If he refuses to use protection, get the fuck outta that situation!!!!
Ladies, use female condoms or get on birth control!!!! No excuse!!!
Be strong minded, even if he hates it. Only strong men will want a strong woman!!!!
If you are gonna have multiple sex partners, use some protection, duh!!!
Having multiple partners doesn't make you a ho, but how you go about it can!!!



I can't speak for white ladies, or black guys. I am speaking for black women. Ladies, live at your own discretion but be wise about it. This is just my honest opinion. If you are offended by this, then you must be a THOT!!!